Motherhood is such a beautiful, transformative journey filled with love, challenges, and self-discovery. It is a profound experience that shapes the course of a woman's life. I get asked a lot of advice about motherhood, and my first key for women contemplating motherhood is to ensure that it is a journey they absolutely want to embark on. Today, there are so many societal expectations, cultural norms, and interpersonal influences that shape our decision-making when it comes to motherhood. I actually love seeing women being honest about the fact that they do not see motherhood in their future. The more honest women are with themselves, the less chance they have of birthing a child they later resent.

We've been exploring the power of developing intentional daily routines all month. I couldn't think of anything more befitting that requires a consistent, intentional routine like caring for our skin. As the days get shorter and the weather shifts, it's essential to consider how we can focus on our well-being and upkeep. Winter can be a harsh and unforgiving season for our skin. The cold weather, dry air, and indoor heating can leave our skin feeling tight, dull, and dehydrated. 

I can’t overstate enough the importance of approaching our skincare routine with intention and mindfulness during the colder months. By nourishing our skin with intention, we can protect it from the harsh elements and promote a healthy and radiant complexion. In this guide, we will explore the concept of mindful winter skincare and share tips and techniques for nourishing your skin with intention.

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I kicked off the month by sharing the importance of simplification, and all month long, I want us to explore how our daily routines and habits support or hinder us in creating our ideal lives. When we think about an optimized and fulfilling life, we often find ourselves conflicted about whether or not it is possible to obtain it because we are confined to the complexities of our daily routines.

When I think about the early stages of my personal growth journey, I know where I want to go and what I want to achieve, but there are so many things I have to let go of to get there. The paradox of choice became overwhelming; too many options led me to experience high levels of decision fatigue, ultimately hindering my personal growth and physically, emotionally, and mentally impacting my well-being.

Today, I want to explore different solutions to help you simplify your daily routine to create a lifestyle that aligns with your deepest desires and highest potential.

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In life, there comes a time when you need to reassess, realign, and relaunch yourself to stay true to your authentic self. For me, that moment is now. As I continue to steer my lifestyle design company, Dvn Oasis, towards greater heights, I've felt an undeniable pull towards relaunching my personal brand—a brand that I believe will become the cornerstone of my life's purpose, reflecting my journey with more intentionality and authenticity than ever before.

When you’ve spent years nurturing a business like Dvn Oasis, it's easy to let your personal narrative take a backseat. But the truth is, your story, vision, and authenticity give life to your ventures. In this new chapter, my primary content source will shift from my business to my personal brand, illuminating the path for others to follow. This transition is not just necessary; it's essential for my growth and fulfillment.

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When I launched my consulting agency several years ago, I incorporated an image consulting service into the offerings I provided during client sessions. A big chunk of my client sessions supports them in identifying their personal style. Whether launching a brand for the first time or rebranding an existing one, an integral part of any rebrand is understanding who you are, what makes you, and how you will express that in the things you create, wear and say.

During the beginning stages of getting to know a client, I always ask, "remove your business from the equation; how do you see yourself? How do you define yourself and your style?" If I could sense they struggled with identifying their personal style, I knew it would be challenging for them to step out into the world and be the creative force they desired. Even when we think it doesn't play a role or make a difference, it does.

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I’ve been thinking a lot about the impact of not being our true selves and how it impacts us mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. I’ve worked hard to remain in this very healthy space that doesn’t allow me to see others and feel envious. At this stage in life, I can confidently say there isn’t another woman I’d rather be.

Well…

Maybe Morris Chestnut's wife once or twice a week, but there are very obvious reasons as to why that’s a choice of mine, haha!

Over the years, I’ve learned that every experience brings with it fresh perspectives that allow us to see ourselves and our path in life more clearly. While my journey to self-discovery has been continuous, a single truth forever remains: remaining authentic despite societal pressures to conform is the biggest key to living a well-lived life.

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This past February, I had the honor of moderating a fireside chat with the remarkable celebrity stylist Bryon Javar during an inspiring event hosted by Banana Republic at their Melrose flagship store. The event was part of the brand’s Black History Month celebrations on the West Coast, designed to honor Black excellence and creative contributions to the fashion industry and beyond. Sharing space with Bryon Javar, whose work as a stylist, creative director, designer, and image maker has influenced so many, was a transformative experience.

Just like how we find comfort in nature, there's a whole world of mindful travel awaiting us. Moving beyond what's familiar brings new perspectives and meaningful connections. Mindful travel means fully immersing ourselves in every part of the journey, from planning to exploring.

When we travel mindfully, our senses come alive in new surroundings. The buzz of cities, the calm of the countryside, and the sounds of the ocean become chances to stay in the present. We enjoy local food, take part in cultural experiences, and find joy in the little things. Mindful travel encourages thoughtful exploration. We learn about the history, culture, and stories of the places we visit. We choose experiences that resonate with us, leaving space for reflection and growth. And we make choices that respect the environment and local communities, aiming for a positive impact.

Beyond its visual allure, nature imparts wisdom about resilience and adaptation. Just as seasons transition and landscapes evolve, nature's ability to weather change becomes our guide, empowering us to tackle challenges with newfound strength. In this article, we explore mindful outdoor practices, delving into the art of nature walks, serene contemplation, and the joy of capturing moments through journaling and photography. Join us in this journey of connection, as nature's teachings become our mindful companions.

The process of choosing a signature scent is a journey of exploration that delves into our emotions, memories, and aspirations. A scent can evoke nostalgia, remind us of cherished moments, or transport us to far-off places we yearn to revisit. Embracing change also applies to our olfactory journey as we uncover scents that mirror our personal growth and shifting moods.

The beauty of a signature fragrance lies in its ability to become a part of our identity, the lingering trail of confidence that accompanies us wherever we go. It becomes a sensory memory for those we encounter, subtly leaving an indelible mark on their perceptions of us. The right fragrance can embolden us, making us feel poised, radiant, and ready to conquer the world.

Change is an ever-present force in our lives, constantly nudging us towards new possibilities and personal growth, and along this path of self-discovery and empowerment, one powerful tool stands out—the vision board.

A vision board serves as a great visual representation of our aspirations and goals, as a tangible reminder of our dreams, and a beacon of inspiration throughout life's transitions. At the core of this process lies a simple yet profound question: "What do I truly want?" It beckons us to delve into our deepest desires and dreams, encouraging us to dream boldly, embracing the possibilities that ignite our passion and motivation.

Our favorite time of the year at Dvn Oasis is when we can share ways to help you elevate your home. While Autumn and Winter are secretly our favorite seasons, Summer is the ultimate time to incorporate simplified changes to the home by layering in design. When the seasons change, it's always a good time to freshen up your home. The previous season may carry old energies and feelings, so beginning anew can benefit your overall well-being. Whether you're looking for a complete interior makeover or want to add subtle summer touches, this quick guide will help refresh your home for the warmer months.

There is something so fulfilling about having an ice cold cocktail on a beautiful summer day and truthfully, nothing completes the summertime vibe better than delicious cocktails. Fortunately, crafting up perfect summertime cocktail doesn't have to be complicated. We've compiled some of the best and easy-to-make cocktail recipes that are sure to shake up any summertime day!

Your work Cal has officially been updated to reflect Summer Friday’s, and with the workday ending earlier at the end of the week, you have more than enough free time to plan a summer soiree. There’s just something inherently pleasing about summer months being spent hosting or attending a bomb party.

Whether you're throwing a casual backyard barbecue or an extravagant sunset dinner party, the key to hosting a successful summer gathering is preparation. From finding the perfect venue to selecting the right entertainment, the are some tricks to hosting an unforgettable summer celebration. Here are a few of our essential steps to curating the perfect fun and stress-free summer event.

Eating seasonally isn’t something we typically think about. I mean, if we could, we would eat strawberries all year long. If we’re being honest, many of us do but it doesn’t mean that it’s the best decision. While seasonal eating may seem like a new trend with the rise of health consciousness, it’s been traditionally done for hundreds of years. In the ancient Indian practice of Ayurveda, there is a special term for eating seasonally: Ritucharya. One of the defining characteristics of Ayurveda, or the ancient Indian science of life, is the relationship that it has with the wisdom of nature.

Summertime is here; we like to think that the start of Summer is an opportunity to embrace a fresh start in all areas of our life. There is no time like the present to set goals that focus on your mental and physical well-being. Committing to a healthier lifestyle isn’t the easiest thing in the world to do. It takes a lot of wheel power and dedication to not only eat better but to get up and work out daily. When it comes to workouts, it can often feel like a chore to add another task to your to-do list. However, taking the time for physical activity is incredibly important for reducing stress and maintaining good mental health. Regular exercise can help reduce stress and anxiety symptoms while also improving your overall mood.